Today, I opened a package for my master’s: it enclosed book #1 for my program. I was thrilled. I’d followed the tracking status, considered following up with the campus mailroom, and was frantically checking our mailbox for the book that said it had “arrived.”
I’ve wanted to “continue my education” ever since I graduated with my BSE in 2011. I love learning. I love classes. I love books, textbooks, assignments.
My first textbook revealed itself inside of the generic packaging. It looked familiar. It looked familiar in a good and somehow sad way. Where have I seen that before? A few minutes later, I remembered that I own the book already. I bought it years ago. I never made it the whole way through, but that wasn’t the point when I saw its cover today.
Today, this exciting book, representing the first class of my new program, also reminded me that I live between worlds. This is something so many of my friends (and my husband) live with daily.
That book, that I own, that is sitting (as a rental) on our kitchen table, is a book that I left behind. It’s not on the bookshelf in our two-bedroom apartment now. I double checked. It’s stashed away in a box at a friend’s house (waiting for me for when I move back) or already gotten rid of—during a lucid moment when I probably processed through moth and rust and the insanity of storing paperbacks, for years, untouched, in a tropical climate.
Missing one thing leads to missing other things, other people—family, loved ones, favorite places to go to, to visit.
That’s all to say: I’m sad. I’m being reminded of the self I embody and how it’s not all in one place all the time. I’m thankful for this little family of mine who is always with me. And I’m thankful that my life is more dimensional and complicated--that it's not just flat and level, but sometimes it can be a bit painful.
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